Friday, May 28, 2010

ABCs of May: T is for....

T is for....

Tired.

Today I am very tired. Tired mentally, physically, and emotionally.

Today, I am tired of people and could very easily become a hermit.

Today, I am tired of problems and could very easily run away.

Today, I am tired of school and could very easily quit.

Today, I am tired of situations beyond my control and could very easily give up.

Today, I am tired of trying and could very easily stop.

Tomorrow is another day...and I will go on because I can't become a hermit, I can't run away, I won't quit, I won't give up, and I won't stop.

Hebrews 13:8
Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

ABCs of May: S is for...

S is for....

Swimming!

When my sister and her family bought a new house last fall, the new house had an above ground swimming pool, so Cathy gave us their old swimming pool.

Yesterday, Scott started the process of putting the pool up.

















The mighty pool man!















The kids couldn't wait to get in!
















Then today....they were able to get in!! They've swam almost all day. I sure hope they didn't get burned!


The water was cold, but it soon warmed up, and they had a great time!

Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make your paths straight.

Monday, May 24, 2010

ABC's of May: R is for....

R is for.....

Robins.

I had mentioned before that we had Robins nesting 2 different spots around our house. Yesterday, Scott was able to get a couple of pictures of the baby Robins in each nest.

This is a picture of the babies in the nest in my Honeysuckle vine.

Here is a picture of the babies in the nest in my Chocolate vine.


It's interesting how 2 different sets of Robins built nest on opposite corners of my house and they each had 3 babies and the babies appear to be about the same age. It's been really fun watching the whole process.

1 John 3:16-18
This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. 17 If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? 18 Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.

Friday, May 21, 2010

ABC's of May: Q is for......


Q is for....

Quinoa.

Ok, most of you are asking....WHAT is quinoa?!? Quinoa is an ancient grain.

It is pronounced keen-wah.

It originated in the Andean region of South America, where it has been an important food for 6,000 years. The Incas, who held the grain as sacred, referred to quinoa as the "mother of all grains".

Quinoa was of great nutritional importance in pre-Columbian Andean civilizations, being secondary only to the potato, and was followed in importance by corn. In contemporary times, this crop has become highly appreciated for its nutritional value, as its protein content is very high (12%–18%). Unlike wheat or rice (which are low in lysine), quinoa contains a balanced set of essential amino acids for humans, making it an unusually complete protein source among plant foods. It is a good source of dietary fiber and phosphorus and is high in magnesium and iron. Quinoa is gluten-free and considered easy to digest.

Not only is quinoa incredibly good for you, it is easy to prepare and very tasty! You cook it like you do rice. It has a very mild, slightly nutty flavor.

Here are some recipes that use quinoa, some of them I have tried, and some of them I want to try eventually.

Quinoa Pudding
2 cups quinoa, cooked (basic recipe) ½ cups raisins
3 cups milk ½ cup shredded coconut
1/3-cup honey or ½ cup brown sugar 1 tsp vanilla
½ cup almonds or walnuts, ground 3 eggs, beaten
½ tsp cinnamon 1/8 tsp salt
½ tsp lemon or orange rind, grated 1 Tbs butter 1 tsp lemon juice

Combine all ingredients. Pour into greased baking dish or greased individual custard cups. Bake in 350-degree oven until set, about 45 minutes. Serve hot or cold, topped with yogurt, cream or apple juice. Serves 4-6.

This recipe was borrowed from an old favorite that originally called for rice. Quinoa substitutes nicely to almost any recipe designed for rice.

Chickquinoa Salad
2 cups cooked chicken, cubed 1-cup mayonnaise
1-cup quinoa, cooked (basic recipe) salt (to taste)
1-cup celery, diced paprika ¼ cup
walnuts, chopped

Chill all ingredients and combine. Sprinkle paprika on top for color. Serves 4-6 All sorts of variations are possible with this basic recipe. Try bean sprouts and water chestnuts, or grapes and pineapple. Quinoa will enhance many other salad recipes. Try quinoa in fruit salad or tuna salad.


Quinoa Salad

1 cup quinoa, cooked
2 cups cooked chicken, diced
1 cup whole pecans, toasted
1 small shallot, diced
2 oranges
Romaine lettuce, torn in bite size pieces

Dressing
Juice of 1 orange
1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil
salt and pepper to taste.

Cook quinoa according to the package, put in bowl and allow to cool slightly. Add cooked chicken, and diced shallots. Peel oranges with knife, removing white pithy skin, and dice into bite sized pieces. Add oranges to bowl. Mix dressing ingredients. Pour over other ingredients. Mix gently, but thoroughly. Add toasted pecans, reserving 1/4 cup. Mix again. Sprinkle remaining pecans on top. Serve over romaine lettuce.

This is a picture of cooked, red quinoa.

Try quinoa....I think you will like it, and your body will thank you!

Genesis 27:28
May God give you of heaven's dew
and of earth's richness--
an abundance of grain and new wine.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

ABCs of May: P is for....

P is for...

Proverbs 31:10-31

"A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.

Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.

She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.

She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.

She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.

She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.

She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.

She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.

In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.

When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.

She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.

She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.

Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:

"Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all."

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

Give her the reward she has earned,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate."

Whew….what an example this woman is! Some women read this passage of Scripture and get dismayed…I can’t really blame them! The woman that the author of Proverbs (probably Solomon) is describing could be compared to the modern day “Wonder Woman”!

The Proverbs 31 woman is also called the “Virtuous” woman. The definition of virtuous, according to Webster’s Dictionary is: “morally excellent”.

Let’s take a little closer look at the qualities of this woman that makes her “morally excellent”. Here is a summary of the Proverbs 31 woman according to the Matthew Henry Commentary. I have paraphrased it, but have tried to stay as true to the original as possible.

1. She is submissive to her husband, and he can trust her to manage his home well.

2. Her husband is happy with her, and she makes it her business to do him good and not harm.

3. She takes pleasure from her work, and does it to the best of her ability.

4. She is not lazy and does not waste her time.

5. She rises early.

6. She applies herself and is diligent in the tasks set before her.

7. She is a prudent manager of everything that she does.

8. She does not waste money on frivolous things.

9. She provides well for her house.

10. She encourages her household in the things of God.

11. She freely and cheerfully gives to others.

12. She governs her words and actions with wisdom and discretion.

13. She is prudent and gives prudent advice to others.

14. Her heart is full of love and kindness.

15. She knows that physical beauty is fleeting, but to fear God produces beauty that will last a lifetime.

16. She has a firmness that will bear up under disappointment and difficulties.

17. When she is old, she will find comfort knowing that her youth was not spent idly or uselessly.

18. She is a blessing.

19. Above all, she fears the Lord.

Here is a quote from the last part of the Matthew Henry Commentary on the Proverbs 31 woman: “Every one ought to desire this honour that cometh from God; and according to this standard we all ought to regulate our judgments. This description let all women daily study, who desire to be truly beloved and respected, useful and honourable. This passage is to be applied to individuals, but may it not also be applied to the church of God, which is described as a virtuous spouse? God by his grace has formed from among sinful men a church of true believers, to possess all the excellences here described.”

Proverbs 31 is one of my favorite passages of Scripture. It gives a beautiful picture of the “perfect” woman. I love that loving God and serving Him, hard work, and high moral standards are what God expects from women. I love that in this description of the perfect woman there is no mention of what size clothes she wears, how many wrinkles she has, or if she has any grey hairs. In fact, it makes a point to mention that physical beauty is fleeting but what is inside a person is what really matters. I love that though the list of qualities this woman possesses is long they are all “doable”; they are goals that each woman can try to attain. I, by no means, qualify as an example of the Proverbs 31 woman, but I am trying day by day to fulfill these goals.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

ABC's of May: O is for......

O is for....
Olivia's Birthday.

Ok, so IDEALLY I wanted to write this post on Saturday, which was her actual birthday, but...it didn't happen. So, better late than never!

On Saturday, my baby turned 10!! I still can't believe I don't have any more single-digiters in the house!

Since it was Saturday, she slept in. When she woke up...the first thing she said was, "I don't feel any different!!" I asked her, "What, did you think 10 would feel different than 9?" She said, "Yeah, I thought I would at least be taller.....I don't FEEL taller!" I had to chuckle at that.

It's amazing how much emphasis is placed on turning older...and yet the difference of 1 day just doesn't feel any different!

She had a good day. Traditionally this is how we celebrate birthday's. The celebration doesn't start until supper time. The birthday person gets to choose what they want for dinner. After we eat, we do the cake and then they open presents. They get 3 presents, 1 from me, 1 from dad, and 1 from their sibling.

She was pretty patient until it got to be around 3:oo, then she started getting really anxious for the "party" to start! Scott ordered the pizza around 4:00, and he and the kids went to Plymouth to pick it up. I can't eat pizza, so I got to eat leftovers! :)

After pizza and cake, she opened her gifts. From me she got a couple of new outfits, and some clothes for her 18" doll. My mom actually made the doll clothes for her, because I am a terrible seamstress. From her dad, she got a Disney MP3 player, and from Travis she got a mini van for her dollhouse dolls. She was very happy with all of her gifts!

I just love having a daughter! She is so much fun. She is the ULTIMATE girly girl. She loves all things girl. Her favorite color is purple. She loves nice clothes and "make-up". She loves babies, and puppies, and kittens. Her favorite toys are stuffed animals, Polly Pocket, Barbies, dolls, and her dollhouse. She can be very helpful (when she's in the "mood"). Lately, she has LOVED helping me cook. It's actually fun having her help, because she is an actual HELP, and not a hindrance. She also has lately, liked going shopping with me. That too is now fun. She is getting old enough not to "beg" me for everything she sees, and willingly takes no for an answer when she doesn't get what she wants at the store. She is very smart and was able to skip a grade.

She has her faults too (like all of us). She is very stubborn, and loses her temper quickly. When she gets an idea in her head, it is very hard to persuade her otherwise. I am praying that those qualities can be used for good, because it is not always a bad thing to be stubborn. The quick temper thing needs to GO though!

I always wanted 2 boys, and when I first discovered that I was pregnant with her, I was hoping for another boy. As the pregnancy proceeded, God softened my heart, and I began to think that having a little girl might not be so bad. When she was born, and indeed WAS a girl. I can truthfully say that I was glad, and that I didn't regret that she was a girl.

Raising a girl is so totally different than raising a boy. In some ways boys are easier. I can already see "hormones" beginning in her, and that will certainly be a challenge when the time comes. How wonderful it is though, that God has created boys and girls, men and women to be so different.

I am so blessed to have the family that I have, with my boy AND my girl!


Psalms 127:3-5

Sons are a heritage from the LORD,
children a reward from him.

Like arrows in the hands of a warrior
are sons born in one's youth.

Blessed is the man
whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame
when they contend with their enemies in the gate.


Monday, May 17, 2010

ABCs of May: N is for....

N is for...

Nests.

Have you ever stopped to consider a birds nest? They are an amazing feat of architectural design. They are built to withstand all forms of weather conditions and to protect tiny, helpless baby birds.
At the moment, I have any number and type of bird nests around me. Outside, we have a robin's nest in my chocolate vine on the southeast corner of our house, and another robin's nest in my honeysuckle on the northeast corner of the the house.


Inside my house, I have the parakeets raising 2 baby budgies, and my silly finches think that it is time for them to raise more babies too. Back around Christmas time, my finches raised 2 babies. I took the nests out of the aviary, but that didn't seem to discourage them too much. Last week
they started building a "nest" in the BOTTOM of the aviary! Then proceeded to lay 2 eggs and they were actually trying to incubate them. So, I put the nest basket back in the aviary and put the 2 eggs in it. I don't know if they will continue sitting on the eggs now, or if they will start over.


All 3 of these "nests" are different. The robins use sticks and twigs and anything else they can find to weave their nests. Parakeets in the wild use hollowed out trees to raise their young. In captivity breeders use nest boxes that simulate a hollowed out tree. In the wild, finches
nests are flask-shaped with spherical nest chamber. They are made of grass stems, large on outside, getting progressively smaller towards inside. They usually build their nests on twigs of bushes and low trees, occasionally in hollows or on the ground. In captivity, breeders use nest baskets.

It seems that every type of bird builds their own unique nests.
Take Eagles nests for instance, both the male and female bring nesting materials; some eagle researchers believe it's the female who usually places the sticks in the nest. It takes from 1 - 3 months to build an Eagle nest. Once it's built, a pair often uses it year after year, adding sticks and fresh plants and working on construction at the beginning of the nesting season. Also, many times the pair makes nest repairs or builds onto the nest for a while after the babies have left for the season. Eagles nests can weight up to 3 tons!!

Compare that to the Hummingbirds nest. The typical hummingbird nest is tiny, about the size of half an English walnut shell. The outer part is covered with moss and plant fibers. Sometimes it is shingled with lichens. The rest is made of plant down and spider webs.

When a woman is about to give birth, some people say they being "nesting". Which is to say, they have the urge to make everything ready for the new baby. This is an appropriate description, because birds are very fussy about their nests and want them "just so" in preparation for their new arrivals.

Every day I am amazed at the wonder of God's creation that is all around me. To think about all the different birds and how He has created them each in their own special ways. From what they eat, where they live, how they build their nests. It is mind boggling. I'm so glad that my God is not boring, and that He has such a wondrous imagination!


Matthew 8:20
Jesus replied, "Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests,
but the Son of Man has no place to lay his head."





Saturday, May 15, 2010

ABCs of May: M is for....

M is for….

Motherhood.

May is the month set aside to celebrate mothers.

I am a mother. I have been mother for 12 years.

Being a mother has been a wonderful experience so far. It is never easy, but very gratifying. There is nothing like being unconditionally loved by someone, my kids love me unconditionally. I can’t imagine life without them. It is an awesome responsibility, being a mother, one that I don't take lightly. I am doing the best I can to raise my children to be honest, hard-working, productive members of society, to honor and respect their parents and people in authority over them, and most of all to love the Lord and serve Him.

I pray for my children. I pray that they will have hearts that are tender towards things of God. I pray that they will grow up and find peace and contentment in whatever careers they choose. I pray for their future spouses. I pray that my children will remain pure until marriage and that they will see the benefits of remaining pure. I pray that my daughter will see how modesty can be a blessing and will want to strive to always dress and act modestly.

I have a wonderful mother. She is a very caring, hardworking woman who I have turned to many times over the years for advice. She loves to cook and garden and sew. She has taught me everything I know about cooking, housekeeping, and quilting. My mother just turned 78 last Monday. I look forward to many more years of turning to her whenever I need anything.

Yes, motherhood is never easy, but nothing worth doing is easy and I wouldn't trade the title "mom" for anything in the world!


Proverbs 31: 28-30

Her children arise and call her blessed;

her husband also, and he praises her:

Many women do noble things,

but you surpass them all.

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;

but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

ABCs of May: K & L is for....

K & L is for....

Koontz Lake

OK, I admit it...I'm grasping at straws for this one! :) I couldn't think of anything for K or L, so I combined them and all I could come up with was Koontz Lake.

Koontz Lake is either a town, or a lake, or both. It is where I grew up. It is a tiny little town in Northern Indiana. The population in 2007 was 1,551.

Koontz Lake has 1 gas station, 1 grocery store, 1 laundry mat, 1 protestant church, 1 catholic church, and 2 bars. It has no Post Office...(so, is it technically even a town? I'm not sure.) I find it ironic that there are as many bars as there are churches. Why is it that even the smallest towns in America have at least 2 bars?

Koontz Lake is average small-town USA. The big difference is the lake. The population increases in the summer months because the "city folks" come to the lake for vacations.

It is really a pretty nice place, a great place to grow up, a great place to raise a family. I've lived in other places, but Koontz Lake and the Koontz Lake area has always been my "home".



Proverbs 3:29-35
"Do not plot harm against your neighbor,
who lives trustfully near you.

Do not accuse a man for no reason--
when he has done you no harm.

Do not envy a violent man
or choose any of his ways,

for the LORD detests a perverse man
but takes the upright into his confidence.

The LORD's curse is on the house of the wicked,
but he blesses the home of the righteous.

He mocks proud mockers
but gives grace to the humble.

The wise inherit honor,
but fools he holds up to shame."


Tuesday, May 11, 2010

ABCs of May J is for....


J is for....

Just born.

I have been mulling this post over in my head all day. I couldn't think of anything interesting happening right now that started with J. It's funny how life can just throw things into your lap.

Olivia was on her nightly trek next door to my parents house for ice cream. She was walking up their sidewalk and heard this high pitched squeaking sound. Upon investigation, she discovered that one of the barn cats, Nermil, was having her kittens right beside my parents house.

I'm not sure what happened, but my dad said that she had had the first kitten ON the sidewalk, and then moved it beside the house and had a second one. This is not Nermil's first litter, so I don't know why she had them right out in the open. She is still in labor with more kittens and she was acting VERY strange. She left her kittens and was chasing one of the other barn cats around the yard. It was very weird behavior. It wasn't like she was trying to chase the cat away...it was more like she was trying to play with it. I'm not sure what's up with her. She is normally a very friendly cat, but when I approached her, she practically attacked my foot! So, needless to say...we left her alone!

Olivia was very concerned for the kittens. She is afraid that Nermil won't take care of them. She wanted me to intervene and try and raise them. I told her, that I was sorry, but raising kittens was WAY different than raising baby birds! I told her that Nermil has raised lots of kittens before and that she knows what she is doing.

If anyone can explain her strange behavior, I would be interested to know why she was acting that way. I know she was being very protective, and also was still in pain from the contractions....it was just really weird.

Life in the country is never boring!!

I was able to get a few pictures of the kittens while Nermil was away chasing the other cat.






























Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
"There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under heaven:

a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,

a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,

a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain,

a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,

a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,

a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace."


Monday, May 10, 2010

ABCs of May: I is for...



I is for....

Indiana Beach.

"There's more than corn in Indiana!"

I love Indiana Beach in Monticello, IN.

My family has a long-standing history with Indiana Beach. The first time we ever went there was the first summer that Scott and I were married, in 1994.

We were introduced to Indiana Beach by family friends, Dave and Julie Tessner. Dave had grown up going to Indiana Beach every summer as a kid and has passed that tradition down to his family. That summer, they invited Scott and I to go along. Dave and Julie and their 2 girls who were about 4 years old, Scott and I and Scott's daughter Sarah, who was around 9-10 years old, spent 4 days in their pop-up camper. It was close quarters, but it was so much FUN! There is something for everyone there. Camping, swimming, mini golf, arcade games, amusement park, shopping, water park, cable TV etc.

After that, we were hooked! For the next few summers we went with the Tessners in their pop-up a couple of times. Then in 2000, we bought our camper, a 1970 Travco. We continued to go to I.B. with the Tessners, but in less-cramped living conditions. It has now become one of our family's traditions to go to Indiana Beach.













As the years passed and the children grew, we started going to I.B. with my sister and her family because our kids are the same age. They would rent one of the cabins available at the campground, and we would camp nearby in our camper.




Unfortunately, nothing ever seems to stay the same. A couple of years ago, the family that owned Indiana Beach sold it to a corporation. Last summer when we went, things were so different and everything cost more. It was kind of a let-down.

Because of our current financial situation and because of all the changes at Indiana Beach, we won't be going this year, that makes me a little sad. The kids are very disappointed. Hopefully, by next year, things will be more stable for us and we can once again go to our favorite place in Indiana....Indiana Beach.




1 John 1:7
But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.

Saturday, May 8, 2010

ABCs of May: H is for....

H is for …..

Hero/Heroine.

People often talk about their “heroes”. I looked up the definition of hero….hero is a word attributed to a man, according to the Merriam Webster Dictionary, a hero is, “a man admired for his achievements and noble qualities.” A heroine is the female counterpart to hero, the definition is slightly different, it is, “a woman admired and emulated for her achievements and qualities.”

There are 4 women that I especially admire and think of as “hero”. Three of these women are from the past, one of whom is still living. The 4th woman is a “present day” woman, whom I know. Let me tell you a little about them, and why I consider them my “heroine’s”.

1.) Corrie ten Boom was born on April 15, 1892, in the Netherlands. She was the youngest of four children. She lived with her father who was a watchmaker, her sister Betsie and her 3 Aunts. Corrie and Betsie never married. They lived above her father’s watchmakers shop.

Corrie began training as a watchmaker in 1920 and in 1922 became the first female watchmaker licensed in the Netherlands. She was a very devout Christian and an active member of the Dutch Reformed church.

During WWII the Germans came to Haarlem, the ten Booms decided to make a hiding place for the Jews. They built the hiding place in Corrie's room. The room was behind a piece of architect by the Dutch Resistance. When the Nazis invaded, six Jews went into the Hiding Place.

The Germans arrested the entire Ten Boom family on February 28, 1944 at around 12:30 with the help of a Dutch informant. They were sent first to Scheveningen prison (where her father died ten days after his capture). Corrie's sister Nollie, brother Willem, and nephew Peter were all released. Later, Corrie and Betsie were sent to the Vught political concentration camp (both in the Netherlands), and finally to the notorious Ravensbruck concentration camp in Germany on December 16, 1944, where Corrie's sister Betsie died. Before she died she told Corrie, "There is no pit so deep that God's love is not deeper still." Corrie was released on New Year's Eve of December 1944. She later learned that her release had been a clerical error. The women prisoners her age in the camp were killed the week following her release. She said, "God does not have problems. Only plans."

Corrie ten Boom died on April 15, 1983 at the age of 91.

2.) Darlene Deibler Rose was born in 1917 in Boone, Iowa. When she was 10 years old, she felt the call to be a Missionary.

On August 18.1938 she and her husband of 1 year, Russell Deibler set foot in their new “home” the Celebes islands of the Netherlands East Indies. They were there to bring the Good News of Jesus to the primitive Kapauku peoples of the Wissel Lakes area of western New Quinea.

Two short years later, the Nazi’s invaded Holland, on May 5th, 1940, because of this the Deibler’s missionary outpost must be abandoned. They had to return to Celebes. They continued their work there until March 13th, 1942 when the Japanese Imperial Army swept through the Netherlands East Indies. They took all of the Missionaries prisoner and interned them in prison camps. March 13th was the last time Darlene saw her husband, he died of dysentery in the prison camp “Pare Pare”.

Darlene was taken to a prison camp in Kampili. She underwent starvation, depravation, and disease and remained in this prison camp until the war ended.

After the war, she returned to the States where she met and married Rev. Gerald Rose. In 1949 they returned to her beloved Kapauku people in New Quinea.

Whenever Darlene shared her story, she would say “I would do it all again for my Savior.” Darlene went home to be with the Lord on February 24th, 2002 at the age of 87.

3.) Elizabeth Elliot was born December 21, 1926. She is a Christian author and speaker. Her first husband, Jim Elliot, was killed in 1956 while attempting to make missionary contact with the Auca of eastern Ecuador. She later spent two years as a missionary to the tribe members who killed her husband.

Elizabeth and her husband Jim went individually to Ecuador to work with the Quichua Indians; they married in 1953 in the city of Quito, Ecuador. Their daughter, Valerie (born 1955), was 10 months old when her father was killed. Elisabeth continued her work with the Quechua for two more years.

For nearly thirteen years (1988-2001) Elisabeth could be heard on a daily radio program, Gateway to Joy. She almost always opened the program with the phrase, "'You are loved with an everlasting love,' - that's what the Bible says - 'and underneath are the everlasting arms.' This is your friend, Elisabeth Elliot ..."

Elizabeth is still living.

These 3 women are my “heroines” from the past. I obviously have never met any of them. So, why are they my “heroines”? They all withstood unimaginable suffering, pain, and loss for the sake of Christ. They not only withstood these sufferings, they withstood them and NEVER lost their faith. They were willing to give up everything, even their lives to follow God’s leading. When I think about these women, I ask myself, would I be willing to do what they did, would I be strong enough to endure it.

4.) Jody Gates. Jody is one of my good friends. She is the wife of Pastor Rob Gates. Rob and Jody have been very special friends for many years. Rob is the pastor that helped lead my husband to Christ. I met my husband sitting in Rob and Jody’s living room. Rob officiated at our wedding.

Jody isn’t “famous”, she’s never been imprisoned for her faith but I know that if she were put in a similar situation as the other 3 women, she would withstand it as well as those women did, and she would never lose her faith.

Jody’s goal in life is to love the Lord with all of her heart and to become more and more like her Savior, and she models that for everyone to see.

Jody’s gentle and quiet spirit has been a great influence in my life, and I am blessed to have her as a friend.

When I think of these 4 women and their example of Christ-likeness, I am encouraged to be like them and grow in my faith so that I will never be ashamed of Jesus.

1 Peter 4:12

Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you. 13 But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed. 14 If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you. 15 If you suffer, it should not be as a murderer or thief or any other kind of criminal, or even as a meddler. 16 However, if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name.

ABCs of May: G is for....

G is for...

Garage Sales.

This weekend is the town-wide garage sales for Koontz Lake and Hamlet. The weather is not cooperating.

I have, what you might call, an indifference to garage sales. There are those people who absolutely love them, and those that absolutely hate them. I fall somewhere in the middle. I am not someone who has to stop at every garage sale I see, but I do go to them sometimes. I have actually gotten some pretty nice things at garage sales...for really cheap too.

I, like possibly everyone else in America have held my own garage sales too. When my children were little, and I had lots of baby things to sell, my garage sales were successful, after they got out of the baby stage they were, how shall we say.....a total waste of my time. The hours spent sorting, labeling, hauling things to a friends house, setting up....even with a "good" sale was really not worth the time and effort. At least with going in with a friend and having the sale together, we had a weekend of fellowship. That made it pretty fun.

Several years ago I decided I would never hold another garage sale. I did all the above mentioned sorting, labeling, and hauling, only for the weather to go south on us and it got rained out. I packed everything up and dropped it at the nearest Goodwill box. I decided then and there that if I had something that I no longer needed or wanted, and it was good enough not to throw away, I would give it away. My decision not to hold another garage sale has really been beneficial in that it has curbed my inclination toward pack-ratism. In the past, I would hold on to something thinking, "I can sell that in a garage sale." Now, twice a year I go through all the kids clothes and closets and make a huge donation to Goodwill!

Garage sales are really just a viscous cycle. You buy something at the store, you use it for however long, you decide you don't need or want it anymore, you sell it in a garage sale for a microscopic percentage of what you originally paid for it, someone else buys it, uses it for however long, they decide they don't need or want it anymore, they sell it in a garage sale for even less than they paid for it, someone else buys it.......and on and on it goes.

Lets face it, most of America is very materialistic. Some people actually put teeth to the saying "Keeping up with the Jones'". I think that is kind of sad, yet on the other hand, capitalism is what has made this country the greatest nation on earth. We all make our livings because of buying and selling either a good or a service. I think, that buying things falls under the same umbrella as everything else in life, the umbrella of..."everything in moderation." It's okay to like and want nice things, but if that turns into the sin of lust, envy, jealousy, or stealing that is where it becomes a problem.

So, do garage sales just feed societies materialism and need to buy; OR is is recycling? I think, it is a little bit of both.

Bottom line....as it says in Matthew chapter 6, the treasures that we hold so tightly to here on earth are only momentary, they don't last. The treasures that you store up in heaven are what really matter and will last for eternity.

Matthew 6:19-21
"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."

Friday, May 7, 2010

ABC's of May: F is for......

F is for….

Friend

/frɛnd/ –noun

1. A person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.

2. A person who gives assistance; patron; supporter: friends of the Boston Symphony.

3. A person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile: Who goes there? Friend or foe?


1. Comrade, chum, crony, confidant. See acquaintance. 2. Backer, advocate. 4. Ally, associate, confrere, compatriot.

1, 4. Enemy, foe.

Sometimes, when I am in a “woe is me… nobody loves, me everybody hates me” mood, I think that I don’t have any friends. Then I am snapped back into reality and realize how blessed I am to have friends.

On my facebook account I currently have 102 “friends”. Most of those people are actual friends. I have a few that are only acquaintances, and a lot of them are family members (who I would hope would be friends as well). Several of them are friends I had in school, and because of the wonders of technology, we have been able to reconnect.

I think all of these people would fall under the definitions #1 and #2 above. Imagine 102 people that are attached to me by feelings of affection, and would give assistance. How could I ever complain of never having any friends?



Let’s not forget about my “Furry Friends”!

I LOVE my dogs! Always in the past, I thought I was a cat person, and I do like cats….I’m just allergic to them. Now that I’ve had my dogs though….I could never go back to having a cat!

A cat doesn’t greet you at the door, wiggling in excitement, EVERY time you come home. It doesn’t matter if I’ve been gone all day, or if I’ve just walked next door for 10 minutes, I get the same greeting. A cat doesn’t jump in your lap and lick your face, just because they love you. A cat doesn’t sense when you are upset and come to comfort you.

About a year ago, Travis was sick with the flu. I made him a little “nest” of blankets and pillows on the floor in the living room so he could lie around and watch TV. Our dog Sally stayed by his side ALL day.





I also have my “Feathered Friends”.

I don’t have to tell you how much I love birds; I’ve talked about them enough that that is self-evident! I’m not sure why I love birds so much. I just find them fascinating! The whole idea of a creature that can FLY! Back around Christmas time my finches had babies. I was so worried that when the babies fledged (came out of the nest for the 1st time) they would fall and get hurt. Those little stinkers just KNEW how to fly! When they fledged, they FLEW out of the nest! Nobody had to teach them!

Birds come in so many shapes and sizes and colors too. I’ve thought long and hard about whether there is any kind of bird I don’t like, and I suppose I would have to say I’m not too fond of a Vulture or a Buzzard, they are kind of gross birds. Although, they do serve a good purpose.

People were made to need attachments. Whether with other people or animals, people were not meant to be alone. When God created Adam He said it was not good for him to be alone….so he made Eve.

Genesis 2:18 “The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."

I know that I am definitely on suited to be alone; I am so thankful that I have been blessed with so many good friends, human and otherwise!



Thursday, May 6, 2010

ABCs of May, E is for....





E is for…..

Election.

This past Tuesday was midterm primary elections in many states. It was predicted that there would be a 10% voter turn out. 10%!!! That is shameful!

Voter apathy has become epidemic in this country. I know that it is hard to get excited about an election, especially a primary election. I have been known to have voter apathy in the past myself. I have come to realize what a privilege it is to be able to vote! There are so many countries that have no choice about who is in charge. They would give anything to be able to have the freedoms that we are so fortunate to have.

As we were driving home from the polls on Tuesday, I started to think about voting and voter apathy. In the kid’s school, we just finished studying the Suffrage movement. Did you realize that women fought for over 70 YEARS to win the right to vote?!?! Women like Susan B. Anthony, Lucretia Mott, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Sojourner Truth, and Amelia Bloomer were the first to start the fight and never lived to see a time when women could vote. Women finally won the right to vote in 1920. Here it is, 90 years later, only 20 years longer than it took for women to win the right to vote, and women today think politics are “stupid”, or “my vote won’t matter”, or “I don’t know who to vote for”. In the late 1800’s and early 1900’s, there was nothing a woman wanted more than to be able to vote. I wonder if those women would have worked so tirelessly, or fought so hard had they known that less than 100 years later, the attitude of so many women is one of apathy, disinterest, and complacency.

It is important who we have in authority over us as we must submit to their authority and obey the laws that they implement.


I don’t like what I am seeing happen to my country. There is so much political corruption. Politicians who forget that they work for us, the American people. Politicians who are only in Washington to further their agendas, and not because they want to follow the Constitution. In November we have the opportunity to make a difference in the direction that this country is taking. I want MY voice to be heard. Let your voice be heard too. VOTE!



Lucretia Mott

Elizabeth Cady Stanton








Sojourner Truth


Hebrews 13:17-19

Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you.

18 Pray for us. We are sure that we have a clear conscience and desire to live honorably in every way. 19 I particularly urge you to pray so that I may be restored to you soon.